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Nipple clamps are a great way to add new sensations and options to any relationship or solo play.  With their increased popularity you can now find a wide variety of clamps with a wide variety of intensities.  Some are made not to cause any pain at all and some are designed for serious BDSM lovers in mind that provide a high level of pain.

Using nipple clamps

Although nipple clamps are designed for the nipple in mind don’t get caught in the mind set that they can only be used on that one body part.  Nipple clamps can be used anywhere, a great place for both men and women is the genital region.  Even the clitoris can be a wonderful place for an adjustable clamp.

When using nipple clamps on the nipples you should first make sure your nipple is nice and erect, either through direct manual stimulation or any means that you can imagine, a nice ice cube works wonders. If you don’t know the clamp’s strength you should place them on a bit slowly at first so you don’t get a negative shock which could easily ruin the mood.

The more flesh you get in a single clamp the less intense the sensations tend to be, so when you want a more intense clamp all you have to do is clamp less flesh. Once the clamp is firmly in place you can then stimulate the nipples in many different ways, limited only by your imagination.  Possible options for further stimulation are feathers, your partners tongue or finger or you can even use a vibrator for some extra kick.  There are nipple clamps out there have attached vibrators, although the intensity is slightly less with these than having a vibrator directly touch the sensitive, clamped nipple, they are still a lot of fun and should be considered.

For those who are into the more intense nipple clamps you should look for endurance clamps, these are typically very similar to other styles of nipple clamps however they have one big difference: they are not adjustable. This means that they are always at full strength.  Another option for all the extreme nipple clamp lovers are clamps with teeth, most of the clamps in this category don’t have any extra padding so as you might be able to guess these can cause some serious, intense sensations.

Nipple clamp safety tips

One of the ways nipple clamps provide so much pleasure is by creating a slight reduction in blood circulation, this also means, especially for really tightly clamped nipples, you probably should limit its use to about 15-20 minutes at a time.  Something to keep in mind when using nipple clamps is that the most painful part will be when the clamp is actually removed and the longer the clamp is on to begin with the more it will hurt when taken off.

It’s also a good idea to regularly clean your nipple clamps with soap and water, the last thing you want to do is get gross nipple clamps that could possibly cause an infection on your nipples.

Don’t forget, nipple clamps are not for women only!  Due to the fact that most women’s nipples are a bit larger than men’s nipple clamps are often a bit easier to use on women, but men’s nipples need attention too.

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Well Im in the G.S.T sex-shop in west London, peering up a plastic vagina. I don’t do this regularly. Only a few weeks ago I seen a news article about some guys in Poland who have reported a pharmacy to the Polish equal opportunities comission because of sexual discrimination. The reason, is that they keeps sex toys for lasses, but not for fellas. Now people don’t usually talk about this, they rabbit on about the rabbit, but the fake vagina has yet to have its Sex and the City moment. So what is out there, Or rather, what is in there?

Paul Black is the stock assistant for G-S-T. He’s a midget and he appears happy, so he takes me by the racks of men’s toys with the passion of a guy talking about drill bits. “The big thing at the moment are the anal toys,” he says, waving at a wall of Rocks Off Naughty Boy prostate massagers. “Fellas look to have found their anal zone at last. Straight men didn’t used to want to buy anything anal,” he beams at me – the fleshlite, “That’s all changed.”

Together we peruse inflatable dolls there is an obese one called Fatima the Fully Functioning Sex Doll, who I feel a weird compassion for and some vaginas. I fingered one. It feels like a bowl of jelly. It felt wrong. “Chaps mostly buy these to use by themselves,” Andrew calls. He points out the Juicy Lucy portable can, which looks like a beer can but has both a vagina and an anus inside, and the Fleshlight, a torch containing a vagina. Both appear like they were designed by the ever happy Q for James Bond, “Now, Bond, if you press this a vibrator will pop out!”

Toys are a lot more acceptable now than they used to be. There seems to be more mixing between the mainstream and us. However sex toys for women are still discussed more. With lots to choose from. Why is this, Why do women wave their rabbits at the world while men hide their rubber vaginas?

Guy sex toys don’t look as nice as chick sextoys. A dong is more attractive than a fake vagina. It cant be said that the vagina is an ugly thing. You cannot say it looks like a face a car door slammed into.

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Self-pleasure is good for you and is considered to have actual health benefits. Self-pleasure is great as well girls; you get to do it by yourself, on your own terms, you can also experiment to find out what you like and what turns you on. Unfortunately growing up many women are raised with little information about our genitals, sex and self-pleasuring which does not really come naturally for everyone. The secret to bringing each woman to orgasm is different. Women can climax through clitoral stimulation, vaginal penetration or G-Spot stimulation. There is no wrong way self-pleasure we are all different. The aim of this article is allow women to understand how to approach self pleasure better.

1. Setting the mood

If you are going to get the most from the experience you must give yourself plenty of time. I would advise that you give yourself at least half an hour. Ladies you have to unwind and be relaxed why not take a bath or open a bottle of wine. It is as much about state of mind as it is about technique ladies. Next make sure that you can’t be disturbed. That means turning off the mobile/cell, locking the door and if you have children send them round a neighbours. Then get yourself in a position you feel comfortable and relaxed in. Ladies most often start out on their backs, legs bent and spread apart, with their feet on the ground. Make sure that you have plenty of support and cushioning.

2. Fantasize/romanticize for self-pleasure

This is your alone time and recalling a past sexual encounter or elaborate on a favourite sexual fantasy can really set the mood. If you need a little of bit of help getting started then read an erotic story, look at a sexy publication or even indulge in a bit of adult entertainment. Ladies this is you time anything goes as long as it get the pulse racing.

3. Explore all parts of your body

It amazing but a lot of women really don’t know their own bodies at all. Experiment and run your hands all over your body and if some thing feels good then linger there and just enjoy the feeling it creates. Look at your genitals in a mirror (especially if you are unfamiliar with it) and caress the different parts to see what feels good to you. There are the inner and outer labia, your clitoris, your vagina and your perineum.

4. Don’t be afraid to play around to find what is best for you

Ladies get those fingers working; use one or two fingers and start to stoke different parts of you vulva and remembering to stimulate your clitoris and labia. Find the rhythm that works for you this means experimenting with pressure, speed and motion. I suggest placing fingers either side of the clitoris and stoking up and down, or placing two fingers on the clitoral hood and rubbing in a circular motion.

5. Life is about surprises

Unless you are willing to open up your mind girls and let yourself be comfortable with your own skin and trying everything you will not get the most from your own body. When self-pleasuring try different types of touch: stroke, tickle, knead or why not even try gently pulling your genitals. Anything goes ladies. The choice is your as you can use one or several fingers, the palm of the hand even your knuckles. Embrace what your body is experiencing as it is wonderful thing and will lead you to a great place.

6. It is a long and winding road

The thought of reaching that climax is all part of the fun. To help get yourself in a heightened state of sexual tension imagine that you are riding the wave. You can add to that by enhancing the excitement yourselves girls. Teach yourself to hold off reaching orgasm by increasing and then lowering the stimuli of your body. Listen to what your body is telling you. Your own body will tell you when you have the right tempo or when a certain tickle feels good.

7. Remain relaxed

As the sexual energy starts to build it is critical to let it take you and not to fight it. Breathing deeply rather than holding your breath will help as will rocking your pelvis as in intercourse will help. I would also suggest rhythmically clenching and releasing your PC muscle (if you are looking for vaginal penetration then a dildo will help).

8. Ride the wave
Once you start to climax it is important to continue to arouse yourself through to orgasm. The body start to get more sensitive so lighten up during those first receptive seconds but keep going to enjoy the pleasurable aftershocks. The first orgasm may feel like a blip or a explosion however the more you practice the more range you will develop and understand.

Self-pleasuring is obviously a very personnel thing. Please ladies make self pleasure part of your everyday life as only through self exploration and self love will you learn more about what works sexually for you but also how to get even better orgasms. Experimentation through self-pleasure will not only lead to personnel self satisfaction but can only benefit your sex life as you work out what you like and then pass on that information to your partner. Please visit our site self pleasure for women to learn more about the power of your own body.

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Selecting the correct human pheromone perfume scent is a choice that should not be rushed into. Each person has their own idea of what perfume smells best on them. Subtle scents are better on some people, whereas others prefer a much stronger scent and to make a bolder statement. There are numerous different types of pheromone based perfumes available on the market today and picking the correct one may take some time to ensure you choose the one that is correct for you.

Picking the Price Range

Affordability can also be a factor when choosing the right human pheromone perfume. Often people will just try the product on without checking the price. A lot of the human pheromone perfumes can be quite expensive so it is best to check the price before trying it on.

To avoid disappointment, a person should find the perfumes that are in their price range and only try those scents to find which human pheromone perfume you like the best.

Choosing A Scent

Once you have narrowed down your selection to a price range, it is time to start trying some of the scents. There is currently a huge range of scents available for pheromone perfumes for women, these can range from different types of fruits, earthy or musky scents, and different types of floral scents.

The majority of women will already have some idea of the type of scent that they prefer to wear and which one suits them best. knowing the scent you prefer can greatly reduce the amount of time and effort you have to put into selecting the right one.

The only way you are going to be able to select the correct scent for you is by smelling them all. Most stores will have testers that will allow you to try the scents without having to purchase them first. It is better to smell these on a piece of paper first and when you have found one you like, test it on your skin.

Often when you smell too many different types of scent too quickly, it can confuse the olfactory senses and you will not get a correct sense of what you are trying to smell. Some stores will have a neutralizer available, such as, a jar of coffee beans, this will allow you to “cleanse the nose” before trying another scent.

A few manufacturers make available a small sample so that the consumer can try the product for a few days before purchasing. It generally takes about a week for a person to decide if it is the right scent for them.

Choosing a perfume scent is not difficult if you take the time to find what you like, but rushing the decision will generally result in a purchase that you are not happy with.

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As well as the question of what to say when you talk dirty to someone, you also have the choice to make of where you say something to them. For a large percentage of people, this may be confined to the bedroom. But what if you have the urge to really electrify your partner in public?

Dirty talk – its fun and naughty and can inject life into a new or old relationship. If your sex life is lacking then consider including some raunchy talk into the foreplay and also during sex. New relationships can also benefit even if you still can’t keep your hands off each other. By starting dirty talk early on, you will both become comfortable with it and will never have the inhibitions that can develop within longer relationships if neither partner has engaged in dirty talk.

Talking dirty can be done anytime, anywhere. Why just save it for the bedroom? What about all those other wasted hours? Think about where else you can talk dirty to your loved one and be imaginative. You don’t even have to be present with each other to enjoy it!

So here are some examples of dirty talk ideas, specifically where you can do it,  to make it even more raunchy and exciting:

In Public

Scared of showing affection in public? Don’t be! If you are a little shy, just whispering raunchy words into each other ears can be incredibly erotic in a public place as you know you can’t do anything there but you truly wish you could. What an experience! Everyone around you will wonder what’s so exciting.

At the Cinema

Watching a boring movie? Even if it’s not boring, flirting with each other and talking dirty is an amazing way to spice up the night. If you’re lucky and have the cinema to yourself you can even go a little further than just talk! Try it and see why this is considered one of the raunchiest ways of getting close to each other.

While Shopping

Have you ever wondered how to spice up those grocery shopping trips? Talk dirty! No one can hear if you are whispering in each others ears. What a way to get in the mood for when you get home!

At Work

No, you don’t have to be working together! Calling each other at lunch or while the other is working is a great time for dirty talk. As long as you have a private place to talk, go wild! Tell him what you plan to do to him tonight. This is sure to excite him and get him in the mood as soon as he walks in the door that night.

These examples of where to conduct dirty talk give you a few starting points.

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