Making Up Again!

In any relationship, insecurity is bound to play a part and occasionally men find themselves with an insecure girlfriend who needs nurturing and reassuring.  In order for insecurity issues to be addressed we need to ask certain questions, for instance: what is the cause of the insecurity?

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Insecurity can be caused by numerous reasons, by asking the question we can help to identify the cause, for instance: jealousy and low self esteem are two common factors.  By revealing the reason why our partner is feeling insecure we can start addressing ways to help her feel more comfortable in the relationship.

Jealousy

It is almost an automatic response for men to glance at another woman that is walking by. We cannot go around with eyes closed all the time and we notice what goes on, but it is essential that your insecure partner understands no matter how much you look around, it is her that you have eyes for.

Imagine if your girlfriend was constantly flirting or casting eyes at other men – you would have cause to feel insecure, too.  An additional problem with insecurity is that partner may start to think you are having an affair just because of a few late nights at the office or a few business trips have taken you away.

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If you girlfriend has become insecure enough to think you are having an affair, then how do you start convincing them otherwise?  The truth is you have to start proving that before the occasion arises: your girlfriend trusts you to be faithful to her and you have to make sure she knows you ‘are’ being faithful to her.  The old romantic tricks work, but don’t overdo them, and the reassurance and loving touches add to the picture and reduce the risk of jealousy.

Self Esteem

Opening up with your girlfriend and being honest about how you feel – telling her you love her, you care about her, how great she looks, telling her about your day and listening to hers is a great way to build security and self esteem.  If you are stressed at work and come home, say nothing, and let it build up she is bound to feel insecure: is she the problem, she thinks?  Sharing your day can be a great way to bond and build trust and relationships.

Many great relationships fall to insecurity in one partner or the other, and often as a woman grows older she loses her confidence; she sees herself ageing, and believes that you will no longer find her attractive.

Reassure her that she is  the love of your life, tell her how great she looks, if she never dresses up then take her out to dinner or a show and tell her.  You need to give her all the love and care you can, and be absolutely straight with her on all points.  By helping to make your partner feel special you will be reducing any insecurity that may exist and will be giving your relationship the best chance of success.

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