Making Up Again!

The question on how to repair a marriage can be answered in different ways. This is because different problems occur at different times in a marriage and each calls for a clear understanding of the times.

Essentially while another person is searching for secrets of a happy married life another is in search of help about what do you do when the kissing stops in your marriage or marriage in crisis

For example, a young couple is often faced with issues relating to “who’s boss” and they argue a lot (just to prove a point) while older couples fight over kids and mortgage decisions.
.But then there are some things that do work irrespective of the nature of your marriage

Point out the problem

You need to start by identifying the root cause of the damage. It is not as simple as it sounds. I mean many people do not separate the difference between cause and effect. Write down all the issues you can think of on a piece of paper.You could actually ask your partner to come up with a list of their own as well. Just be careful not to retaliate when he or she starts pointing at you as the problem.

Have clear goals

One of the recommendations on how to repair a marriage is to have a set of objectives that emanate from the identified problem. For example, if the problem is communication then the objective should be to start communicating more often

Have deadlines and realistic timeframes

When planning setting these goals do not make them unreasonable. Make them simple, measurable, realistic and time-wise. If you set goals that are impossible to achieve you will succeed in only making things worse, take it from me.

Find out if you need to put any money into fixing the marriage

People hate having to look at money as being necessary to fix a relationship. This is because they do not look at a relationship as an asset that needs proper care and monetary investment to keep it alive.

Sometimes I say that the best thing I can invest my money in is my marriage. This could include things like going out, going on trips, buying each other small gifts etc.

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Answering the question how to repair a marriage can be approached in a number of ways. Things do not happen  the same way in a marriage and each marriage needs to be looked at separately.

Essentially while another person is searching for secrets of a happy married life the next person is searching for info about what do you do when the kissing stops in your marriage or marriage in crisis

Just as an example, younger couples tend to fight and argue about control issues while older couples fight about children and things like mortgage payments
.But then there are some things that do work irrespective of the nature of your marriage

Point out the problem

You need to start by identifying the root cause of the damage. It is not as simple as it sounds. I mean many people do not separate the difference between cause and effect. Take a pen and paper and write down all issues you can think of.In fact talk to your spouse to help you with some and list  his or her own.When you start discussing the problems don’t rush to be defensive when you are in the spotlight.

Have clear goals

One of the recommendations on how to repair a marriage is to have a set of objectives that emanate from the identified problem. For example, if the problem is communication then the objective should be to start communicating more often

Have deadlines and realistic timeframes

When you are defining your objectives they should be realistic. Make them simple, measurable, realistic and time-wise. If you set goals that are impossible to achieve you will succeed in only making things worse, take it from me.

Find out if you need to put any money into fixing the marriage

People hate it when I bring up this last point on how to repair a marriage. This is because they do not look at a relationship as an asset that needs proper care and monetary investment to keep it alive.

Sometimes I say that the best thing I can invest my money in is my marriage. This could include things like going out, going on trips, buying each other small gifts etc.

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How to Forget Your Partner’s Infidelity

Men are said to be polygamous by nature and hence surviving infidelity is a real crisis for many married women. How must you handle your husband’s disloyalty?

Women usually pity themselves for having been cheated on simply because they were not enough for their husbands. At some point, married men are less likely to feed on affrairs outside of marriage if they are satisfied with their spouses and their marriage.

The truth is, it is wrong for you to ever think that you are responsible for your partner’s unfaithfulness. Either of you should not think that it is the offshoot of any of your actions. Rather, infidelity is the preference of the party who has offended the other. Being the wife, you should know that it was your husband who decided on it. It wasn’t your fault.

Surviving infidelity is never easy. It leaves a mark of trauma to the offended party. Must you give it another try?

Determine your grounds on your marriage. Positivity will help you arrive at a good decision. If you concentrate on the traumatizing part, you will surely find it hard to live with your spouse. Married individuals often get into this situation so it matters that you are strong enough to deal with it.

The memories of the past are hard to forget. And it is true that your heart may let it off but it may not forget. The past will often come your way. You will always think that your husband can have another illicit affair again. You must be open-minded, more understanding, and be able to move on to survive the infidelity of your partner.

Trust is an important ingredient of marriage and surviving infidelity is a thorough process that prove your love for each other.

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We all know breakups can happen. But it doesn’t have to be the end of it if you don’t want it to be. Most breakups can be reversed, in fact with a little effort you can get your wife back easily.

When I was dumped I got my self a game plan, without one you are more or less screwed. And not in a nice way!

First step in my plan was to give my ex a bit of breathing space. I did not call or text or chase her in any way. I thought about stalking but decided I couldn’t handle the jail time.

I simply did not want to let her see me as desperate and needy. I’m a man and men don’t do that kind of stuff!

I took some time out and got myself mentally prepared. I knew that falling into despair and then depression would lead to longer term problems, maybe serious long term problems.

I did a bit of socializing and got out and about with my friends. I knew that my ex would get news of me being out and having a good time. I also knew she would be a little bit jealous.

No matter whether they dumped you, if they see you out with another date they can’t help but unleash the green eyed monster. It’s in our nature.

My next move was to call her when I knew she was out and leave a message on her voice mail. It had to be left on her voice mail for a reason.

I put a psychological hook in the message that she swallowed like a greedy fish.

If you wanna get ur ex back you gotta employ every trick in the book

The psychological hook was simply curiosity. I knew it would make her so curious as to not be able to resist calling me back.

Within a day or two she had indeed called me back. Part one of my plan was a success. In the bag so to speak.

She did not realise that it was me who had made the contact, she was sure she had gotten in touch with me on her own. Her mind wasn’t interested in the message I’d left, just the fact she called me.

It was plain sailing after this. She thought she’d made the contact and got us back together. Psychological mind games in action there. And I’m not going to remind her otherwise. Don’t you just love it when a plan comes together?

I managed to get my wife back with the help of a step by step system that has all the bases covered, and I mean all, you simply can’t go wrong.

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You are no doubt here because of one single thing going round in your head, get my wife back – get my wife back – get my wife back – I’m sure I don’t need to spell it out.

I certainly get the picture as I too was dumped from a great height. That was the only thought going through my mind for weeks and weeks.

First off you need to get a plan. Without one you are doomed to fail. Luckily there’s a lot of info on the net from people who’ve been dumped and successfully reversed the situation.

I’m not saying it’s easy and I’m not saying it’ll happen overnight but it’s certainly something you can do (get your ex back) with a bit of effort.

If you started gathering info now, how long do you think it would be before you figured you had a good plan? Possibly never as you just don’t know what is good and what is bull.

This is where a method that has been tried and tested by thousands comes into its own. Most humans work on the same emotions and principles and thought patterns. So if a method works for others then there’s a darn good chance it’ll work for you.

I was very sceptical of any book or course working like this but I was quite wrong. It worked very well for me.

I can’t claim that one psychological trick worked to get her back but it put into motion a chain of events. A chain that ended with us back as a couple.

The trick I started with was one where I got my wife to actually phone me and initiate the conversation, without actually asking. I used the power of curiosity.

Curiosity is a massive driving factor in our lives. We are by nature curious to know. It’s more than that, it’s a need. We need to know.

I phoned my ex and left a message and I made sure I got the curiosity hook in the message. Sure enough she was on the phone back to me within the day.

Getting back together after this was pretty easy. My wife was doing the chasing, not me. I started it with the curiosity phone call but then she carried it on.

I’d put money on it that 99% of people would respond in the same way to a message like that.

Once she’d called me I had to put the rest of my plan into play. I mentioned it wasn’t my plan, I didn’t create it. I got it in a downloadable bundle that cost me less than our last date.

Was it worth it? Worth every penny to me and I can say that with hand on heart. If I was sure it was gonna work as good as that I’d have paid ten times the amount up front.

I don’t think it’s ethical to re-print other peoples work so I can’t show you what I did.

If someone has worked hard enough to put a (successful) system down in an easy to follow guide then I think they at least have earned the chance to sell it to you themselves.

What I can do though is point you in the right direction, the same direction I went in. When I was desperate to get my wife back it worked for me. I’m sure it’s worth a shot for you.

In conclusion your wife won’t come back on her own. The first move is up to you. Well, the first move is yours but she may think it was hers! Strong stuff indeed.

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